HEAR WHAT OPRAH HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN

If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behaviour.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends".
A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better."
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently? Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.
He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behaviour.
Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he hasmore education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man.
If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Share this with other women and men (just so they know)...
You'll make someone smile, another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare.
They say it takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them.
"He who postpones the hour of living rightly is like the rustic who waits for the river to run out before he crosses." - Horace

TODAYs a WONDERFUL day

Today i received more than what i HOPED for....I got SAPG Rating... yahooooo....

A Reason, A Season, A Lifetime

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime.

When you know which one it is, you will know what to do for that person...

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed;They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support;To aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually.They may seem like a GOD-send and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, This person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die; Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now it is time to move on.

Some people come into your life for a SEASON, because your turn has come to share, grow or learn. They bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it, it is real. But only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons; Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, Love the person and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. Thank you for being a part of my life.Whether you are a reason, a season or a lifetime.

Camiguin - Sunken Cemetery

As part of our tour, we visited the famous Sunken Cemetery in Camiguin

If you want to visit camiguin and wish to have the same tour as we had you can contact the ff:

Archie @ +639197837694 or

Erwin @ +639164592874.

You will sure to have a worry free and wonderful experience in Camiguin.

Camiguin - Falls experience

Check out our pictures in this GRAND and beautiful Falls in Camiguin

Camiguin - Hot spring

For only 30 Php/person you can enjoy this wonderful hot spring in Camiguin

Camiguin - Sunken Church

This used to be a cathedral but because of the eruption of Mt Hibokbok half of the church was buried under ground

Camiguin White sand experience

Camiguin (come again!)

We arrived in Camiguin last July 19, 2008. Early morning the following day (as in 5:30 AM), we rented a "pump boat" to bring us to the famous white sand bar. Although we stayed for only a couple of hours it was an unforgettable experience that I hope I can repeat again in the near future.

CDO water rafting with Ateng's

Last July 18, 2008, me and my atengs flew to Cagayan de oro (my place of birth) for a much needed vacation. Not only was it a vacation but its was THE GREATEST experience to date....





Its not everyday someone can ride the rapids BUT WE DID!!!


Check out our video.





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Don't miss this once in a life time experience when you visit cagayan de oro.
You can contact Rex @ +639195026317 or visit their website at http://www.raftingcdo.com/
Have them take your pictures and videos for this wonderful experience.