"Finding the right person is very hard and very wrong. It is best to be the right person for the one you love and start from there.
You'll always end up disappointed when you set standards and define a "right person" for you...
and don't rush things coz somewhere somehow
God is preparing somebody for you."Don't be in a hurry to get into a relationshipbecause you can never find love
if you insist that you are already into it.
Try to find time to really understand
your real feelings, to know who youreally are, and what you really want in arelationship.You're right, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship, but there's a compatible partnership that goes along with it.
If you already knew that you're too big to fit
into a small sized t-shirt, don'tgive it a try.
You'll probably break it and pay for thedamages you have made. If you knew and felt thatthe relationship will not last,
don't go deeper into it.You'll just suffer the consequences and live likehell for the rest of your life.
It's really hard to say goodbye though,
but you can't make it any betterby just pretending you still have the same feelings.Try to let go and give yourself a chance to live life to the fullest. Give yourself a
chance to grow and give your heart
a much needed attention. Then you will find that you have made the
right Decision and you made it all by yourself.We call it love when we can't leave someone and see them crying as we try
to let go.We are wrong, it's just pity.
We call it love when we're too attached
and think that losing the one we love willsomehow make us weak and unable to face the storms of life. We misunderstood;
it's just that we're too much dependent to them.We call it love when we give our whole life to them,the wholeness of us and
imagined that if they leave, no one
would accept us and our past. We are mistaken,
its just insecurity. But no matter what the
definition is, the truth still remains thatlove isn't something you can buy or beg. It is real and existing. You can't touch it but you can feel it in your heart. You can't find it, but it will knock before you when you least expect it to come. Itcan make you the happiest soul in heaven, but don't forget that it can also
make you the most miserable person
in the whole galaxy."When you lose someone... and you think you were the one who loved most, betweenthe two of you... she lost more. For someday youcan love someone the way that you loved her...
But she will never be loved again the way that you did."
